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  • To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all. ― Donald Rumsfeld while serving as US Secretary of Defense

Monday 10 March 2014

LOVE PSYCHOLOGIST: Miss Independent...too independent


“Cause she walk like a boss, talk like a boss…”

See wahala. Men like Ne-yo sing songs like Miss Independent, and us females are ready to get that n**** outta our lives! Plleeaassseeee oohhh my brothers, help me tell my sisters that we are in N-A-I-J-A. Some songs are NOT applicable. Ok, she can pay her bills, drives her own car, and doesn’t even need you to pay for the monthly salon visit. She’s got options –jobs and admirers. But that does not mean she should start disrespecting you or threatening to walk out of the relationship every time there’s a hitch.

There is a thin line between being independent, and being arrogant as a self-sustained female. Guys love a woman that isn’t materially needy, a woman that can take care of herself. But when that woman starts to use her blessings to make her man feel insecure…my sister, Park. Very. Well.

The trouble with women is that they often don’t know when to stop. My dear, remind her that it’s a man’s world, whether she likes it or not! Didn’t God create Adam before Eve???? Lol.

 Don’t go acting like a bush Igbo man to prove your point oh, yelling, ignoring her or flirting with other chicks. Talk it out with her; communicate so that your lady appreciates her man. YES, BOSS!

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