“Omo, that girl na your babe? Make you cool down oh. Na she
dey service all the guys for uni so she go push jeep.”
DAMN!! That is a hard one to wriggle out of, even if this
all happened more than 12 years ago. Hmm. I don’t even know what to say about
this one. Nobody wants to wife the girl who’s been around the block, but just
occasionally, men have to deal with such hurt. Wahala oh!
Do you really want to marry this chick? If you are not serious
about settling down with her, no harm done. However, if you envision her as
your wife, you both need to discuss this one. Hmmmm. Not easy; not easy at all.
Pele, my dear. I feel your pain. Your parents, your friends, your entire
village clan…This is the kind of gist that you’ll never hear the end of once it
gets out. Omo you have to consider the grave consequences of taking a step
forward with your lady. Can you be sure that if, God forbid, times get tough
with you she won’t resort to “tested and trusted” methods
from days of old to
see you through?
Very important observation: did she even give you a glimpse
of her past so you would never be caught off guard? A woman that loves you will
give you a hint even if she doesn’t say the whole thing. Mayne you guys need to
sit down and discuss this issue.
I think our generation is more forgiving of such *ahem*
misdeeds and I believe in second, heck third, chances. Nobody is perfect but
every obstacle can be overcome if both of you have true feelings and respect
for each other. I’ll leave you with these words from P-square (More Than A Friend):
“my brother…can you
imagine what the people are saying?...They say make I fashi…People dey talk say
she nasty…Na dem know, I don’t care what people say. Can I be More Than a
Friend…till the end”
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