LOVE PSYCHOLOGIST: WE SUPPORT DIFFERENT POLITICAL PARTIES: ITS OVER

Haha! Hilarious! LMAO. Sorry, sorry oh. I thought we were in the 21^st century – full of modern and forward thinking progressives. So what if your chick supports a different political party? Oh, so you’re one of those guys that believe every single thing should be in sync between two of you – support the same club, wear matching outfits, love the same soup? Yeah, it may seem cute occasionally, but that is quite boring in the long run.

Your girlfriend doesn't have to do everything the way you do to prove she loves you or that she’s at one with you. And wouldn't you rather she have her own identity? I vote variety as the spice of life jare. With these past elections, full of drama and panic as usual, I can imagine tensions running high if you’re on opposite sides, but

HEALTH: DEALING WITH ADULT ADHD

Experiencing any of these problems recently?

·         Chronic lateness and forgetfulness.

·         Anxiety.

·         Low self-esteem.

·         Employment problems.

·         Difficulty controlling anger.

·         Impulsiveness.

·         Substance abuse or addiction.

·         Poor organization skills.

·         Procrastination.

·         Low frustration tolerance.

·         Chronic boredom.

·         Difficulty concentrating when reading.

·         Mood swings.

·         Depression.

·         Relationship problems.

You might be exhibiting

LOVE PSYCHOLOGIST: WOMEN AND MARRIAGE! WHY CAN'T WE BE FRIENDS?

Well....marriage is not for everyone. Bros if marriage is not for you, please don't string a girl along for too long.
Being open from the onset saves everyone a lot of stress in the loooonnngg run.

video: Youtube - He's just not that into you

HEALTH: BLOOD IN SEMEN

Scary ish yeah? But it happens. Even got a medical term - hematospermia

Blood can appear in semen as a result of inflammation/ infection, after a medical procedure, because of STDS (chlamydia or gonorrhoea), too much sex (which may damage the sex organs), damaged blood vessels, liver disease and other medical conditions. Symptoms may include blood in the urine, painful urination or ejaculation, fever, other signs of STDs or swollen/ tender sex organs.

Sometimes, the blood is temporary and disappears after a bit, usually after a medical procedure like prostate gland biopsy. However, if you have repeated episodes of blood in your semen, there might be a serious problem. Either ways, please see your doctor so that the right tests can be carried out.  Such tests include urinalysis, rectal examination, STD testing and other urological tests, and relevant treatments can be given after the right cause of bleeding is properly detected. 

So, if you see red when you should see white/ cream/ pale yellow, PLEASE holler at ur doc.

BE AWARE!!

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LOVE PSYCHOLOGIST: SO WHAT IF I'M DIVORCED?

Sweetheart, I’ve been down that road too. Met an older, gorgeous, intellectually stimulating man and we completely hit it off. Same sarcastic sense of humor, superiority complex…we’re still really good friends two years down the line, but…he’s divorced. So I never let anything happen.

Is it because the bible and (Nigerian) society tell us that being romantically involved with a married man is an abomination? If there was no God eh…Lol. Let me not expose masef.

But, besides religious implications, some of us females subconsciously don’t want to be intimate with somebody who couldn’t keep his marriage together. Let’s face reality – that is not the most attractive trait in a guy. Or you didn’t know before you married that she would change? Guess what you changed too. She cheated?

HEALTH: AVOIDING SHAVING BUMPS

Nah. Nobody likes to see a guy with bumps on his jaw from shaving with a stick. And this our curs-ed naija, nappy curly hair makes shaving a NIGHTMARE!

A few tips if you’ve got shaving issues:

i)                    Shave right after your shower when the hair is soft

ii)                   Use a good shaving cream and the right shaving stick - the more the blades, the easier the shave. Gillette Fusion Silvertouch Power is a good (although quite pricey) stick to use.

iii)                 If your skin is sensitive to sticks, use a clipper or an electric shaver

iv)                 Shave with the grain not against it

v)                  Exfoliate before you shave. Lather St. Ives apricot scrub on your face while you shower to soften the skin.

vi)                 Use good after-shave product

vii)               If none of these work, you just gonna have to stop shaving all the hair off your face and trim your beard and moustache regularly.

Sorry mate, beauty is pain!