Exactly!!! Naija women be talking feminism and 21st century ish, women's rights and celebrating international women's day, but when its time to put down money, they remember that a man's place is to be the provider. Women...scammers
We all love a chivalrous man, who's got his lady's back, but let's be realistic for a second. In our grandparents time, and perhaps early in our parents time, the societal idea was that the man (in a marital home) was the sole (only, single, riding solo) breadwinner. The man was expected to provide the bulk of income coming into the family and anything his wife earned was seen as supplementary, nothing substantial. Her primary job was to be a home-maker and take care of the kids.
Until maybe three decades ago, the woman's role in the work force was very limited (at least in Naija). The ratio of men to women in any office was probably 10:1. Men got promotions much faster than women and even when women were promoted, the increase in pay was not as much as what the men got. No be the women's rights we dey fight for? Now, we got those rights, but we no wan the responsibility